Saturday, January 8, 2011

The first day of the first weekend

Saturday: I was told I could sleep until whenever today... so I did! haha We watched the Chronicles of Narnia- Prince Caspian until well after 11p last night and my body did not like that. I was happy to sleep until I woke up today and I think it was the first night I actually slept all the way through the night (hopefully a good sign that I'm adjusting?). I woke up and did stuff on the computer for about two hours, took a shower and went down for breakfast. I was definitely the only one who hadn't eaten yet; oh well. I had two pieces of bread (one with Nutella, one with Lionel's raspberry jam) and tea. After breakfast, I spent some much needed time in my bedroom to finish the unpacking process. And pretty soon after that it was time for lunch... my first lunch with the family. *Side note, Emmanuelle has been with us every day but she left for school yesterday so now it is only Lionel, Christine, Guilhem, and I.* For lunch- get ready- we had backed chicken and potatoes. To start, julienned carrots with black olives (something that was so much tastier than I expected that I helped myself to seconds) and then came the main course. The chicken was so juicy and tender that I almost didn't need a knife, and the potatoes were crispy with olive oil and chicken juice. Hungry yet? :)
After lunch, we passed around a bowl of fruit. I had an apple but wished I could have been Guilhem; he had a banana and helped himself to the Nutella as well. When everyone had had enough fruit, Christine invited me into the kitchen to scoop myself some coffee. There were two types and I decided to go with the less strong and slightly sweet of the two. The coffee is so finely ground that it goes directly into your mug as if you were making chocolate milk. After the water, you add your milk or cube of sugar if needed. It was the best coffee I may have ever had! The four of us took our drinks to the living room and sat around sipping hot drinks and eating chocolate. I decided that was a good time to finally give my gifts to the family. I bought Christine and Lionel "Mom" and "Dad" mugs, Guilhem got a ball cap, and I gave a very pretty ornament to the family- all from Disneyland. And my parents bought three types of See's candies to give to them as well. I have never had more fun giving gifts! Guilhem was ridiculously adorable about his hat, which was a relief because I wasn't sure if french boys wear ball caps. And Christine and Lionel loved their mugs. Lionel couldn't keep his hands off of the See's candy, and Christine wanted the ornament on their Christmas tree right away. Later in the day, she told me how many of the ornaments on their tree were gifts, and that each year as they go up she is reminded of the person who gave it to her. So every Christmas, Christine will put up my ornament and think of me :)

Guilhem with his new hat and a See's Candy sucker

Our after-luch tray with some of the presents

My ornament to the family, on their tree

In the afternoon, Christine and I went to Le Clerc to fix a problem with my cell phone (which we did fix, thanks to her) and then went grocery shopping for dinner. As we were driving towards the Le Clerc parking lot, Christine noticed a spot we had just slightly passed. She turned sharply to the left to backtrack and pull in but the car right behind us cut in front and took the spot. The only other spot just happened to be right next to that car. *Cue french style of dealing with annoying drivers* After parking, Christine gets out with absolutely no intention of letting that other driver go without understanding how rude he was to her. They start arguing and I just kind of sat there quietly, pretending I wasn't really there. You'd be wrong to picture Christine and this man getting in each other's face pointing fingers; for, they were certainly arguing but a lot of the time Christine didn't bother looking at him. She was getting things out of the car. It was the most calm argument I've ever witnessed- I didn't even know what they were saying! She told me after that he had apologized and hadn't realized Christine wanted that spot. I guess she told him that he was a nice person and that he shouldn't lose that. She told me that it's important to encourage people when they have kindness in them.
After grocery shopping, Christine took me to the local library where I checked out two movies in french- Titanic and Enchanted- and three french CDs. If french music and movies don't quite tickle your fancy, just know that I am tingling with excitement about having these things for a few weeks :)
Dinner was a wonderful experience: I was invited to have a friend over and asked Roshanna to come for dinner. Lionel and I picked her up from the student residence building and brought her back to the house around 6:45p. Roshanna and I got to spend some time talking and getting to know each other better before dinner and that was great. For dinner, it seems like we went all out. Rather than eating at the table, we ate in the living room next to a blazing fire and were accompanied by Christmas music from Christine's childhood. There wasn't a main course tonight but we had a lot of small dishes to choose from- foie gras, bread, small cheese/tomato bakes, codfish-egg tarts, fresh guacamole, tangy salsa, and vegetables for dipping. Lionel served Roshanna and I two different drinks- one was a sweet white wine from Spain and the other was also sweet but was only meant to go with the foie gras. Speaking of which, if you haven't had foie gras before then don't eat it in big chunks. The texture, the taste, and the reality of what it is each need to be accepted by the eater separately. I know foie gras is a delicacy, but I think I will need many more experiences to eat it the way Christine and Lionel ate it tonight. Roshanna's an opera singer and offered us a small concert after dinner, which was absolutely fantastic. I've never heard opera without music but it is actually very beautiful. Christine and Lionel enjoyed that a great deal and appreciated that Roshanna and I both tried our best to communicate in french throughout the evening. It was a completely wonderful evening and Roshanna, as my friend, passed the test- she's welcome at the house anytime she wants. :)
It's time for bed; we're having a picnic in the mountains tomorrow so are leaving in the morning. Before I go, let me just say that I am also having a ton of interaction with Lionel but it is very different than with Christine. With Lionel, all communication is done in french and is almost entirely him telling stories. It is an absolute shame that my french isn't better because I can't understand everything he's telling me and I know it is all invaluable. For instance, he has talked to me about the French Revolution, how that was a time of great shame for the french and is not something they are proud of today, a lot about world war II and so forth. There is so much more; today alone, Lionel talked at me for a total of at least 3 hours. I am very frustrated that I can't share with all of you what he's sharing with me, but I can hope to understand it all by the end of my four months here.
Bed time. Thanks for reading these super long stories. Good night!

Day 6

I had my first class today- Business in the EU. Fortunately for me, it didn't start until 11:15a so I could sleep in/recover a little bit from all of last night's walking and staying up until 1:45a on my blog. When I came down for breakfast, Christine was the only one still home and she was sounding very frustrated with whoever it was she was on the phone with. I had the usual waiting for me on the table: bread, jam, and tea, but a new and wonderful addition was there as well... Nutella!!!!! It wasn't the same brand as Nutella but was essentially the same spread. Boy was it delicious! I had two slices today just to have more Nutella :)
When I was done eating, Christine was wrapping up her (now) argument on the phone. She hung up a few minutes later and then went on in english about this most "unpleasant" woman on the phone. We talked for the next half hour about how she wanted to schedule an appointment for Guilhem with their optometrist and how the woman she spoke to was so unpleasant and rude. Christine told me that in France there aren't very many optometrists so you often have to wait 9 months or more to be seen. According to the woman Christine talked to, they had missed an appointment five years ago so were taken off the list and could not see the doctor. The whole thing was just so different from how things work in the States and in a way, it was so much fun to listen to Christine fume about this situation. It was terribly frustrating for her, I don't mean to belittle that, but it was also somewhat educational for me.
I walked to school this morning and with each step, I could feel the residual fatigue from last night's trek. My legs are officially sore and painful today, but I know this is something I must adjust to. Walking is the way to go in Pau! I was late to class but it was no big deal, as it's the first day. I don't want to let it happen again though. I already have too much practice being late for things and this is the place to try something new! XD
I think I'm going to enjoy my elective class; Ryan (our director) is my teacher and the class is small. It should be pretty easy going and interesting. After class, I went with my new friend Monica to the third and last eatery on campus, where I had un Croque Monsieur (something I've been wanting to try for at least 5 years)! Again, 3 euro. It was a good lunch :)


I'm sorry to say that not much else happened today. I had planned to go downtown again for dinner and fun but my legs were hurting too much for that. I did, however, find out my level for my french classes. I'm in Groupe C which is at least better than basic (there's A-F and 3 advanced classes). And a lot of really nice and fun people seem to be in that group too (including Roshanna)! The french professors put us in groups so that they can organize the weekly schedule. So for everyone in my group, our weeks- until March 25- will look like this:
*Mon- free day
*Tue- 8a-11a
          1p-3p
*Wed- 9a-12p
            1p-3p
*Thu- 9a-12p
           1p-3p
*Fri- 9a-12p
         1p-3p
Once I had my schedule I took my time walking home and taking pictures along the way. I worked on my blog for a few hours and then went downstairs to talk with Christine. Their house has had at least one worker in it every day since I've been here because they're remodeling a guest bedroom. Christine gave me a tour of the construction, told me what everything would become, and then I watched her prepare dinner: Quiche Lorraine! And oh my goodness it was delicious! She had a thin crust sitting in a dish on the counter, sprinkled Emmental cheese around the bottom, scattered cubes of raw bacon on top (which is totally different from American bacon), poured an egg and milk mixture on top, and then baked it. It was incredibly simple and incredibly delicious. And of course, to start that meal we had soup. This time it was broccoli and cheese soup and was also very good. After dinner, we watched the Chronicles of Narnia- Prince Caspian (in french) with our dessert. Christine had to "propose" this to Lionel because he likes to watch an ocean documentary on fridays. I had a nutella-tasting mousse for dessert and Guilhem offered me a bowl of his candy- bon bon- from the holidays. All in all, it was a very good evening and I was thoroughly exhausted!
Tomorrow we're having a dinner party in the evening and foie gras will be served. I've been told to invite one or two friends from USAC :) Talk to you all tomorrow